Stability v/s Progressive
STABILITY V/S PROGRESSIVE…
Do u think that a silent and smooth flowing river does not enrich its banks with nutrients or for that matter dries up in due course? Or only a noisy wild and swift flowing river down the high mountains attracts your attention ….??? Well!! This may not be the case all the time that the fast, dynamic, and wild make life happening and content.
To a whole lot of this generation moving ahead without giving a second thought to cons is the best way to be successful. But I strongly feel that for success to be sustained and cherished, we need to have a hold on it. In life the growing up years are more than usually speedy and pass by like a strong gush of wind. Happiness, pain , anger , jealousy n the likes all come n go in changing moments as we grow up from kids to mature adults. Then comes a stage when we suddenly feel this constant urge to stop for a while, wait, and look back n see beyond the past…. Well into the past. There have been times of late that this mad rush of Mumbai life has made me so frustrated beyond limits that I have actually thought of just keeping life at a standstill and relishing smooth flowing years of college.
But this is not truly possible as there aint nothing like a time machine to help us do that. So what I feel is that at stages in life when we feel things are moving too fast and beyond our control which is also a result of our hunger for success, growth, happiness etc we should look for things that can get some kind of stability in our lives. This may be in the form of a relationship or anything that can get us so close to our own self that we discover our ultimate calling in life. This wouldn’t stop us from going ahead in life as one may think, instead it would help us ease out the tensions that might have filled our minds and would be detrimental to our search for constant happiness.
A lot of us including myself think that a marriage and family would change the dimension of our lives but making them stagnant, routine like and may Boring… but that as I come to think of deeply, I understand is the perfect way to balance a racing individual’s life by letting him take a gentle stroll in the garden of life so that his quest of progress does not take away his ability to enjoy the true essence of life.
At this juncture of life I feel that stability and progressive are 2 sides of a perfectly balanced life and anybody who can make the perfect cocktail of both can truly get the high of LIFE………….
Do u think that a silent and smooth flowing river does not enrich its banks with nutrients or for that matter dries up in due course? Or only a noisy wild and swift flowing river down the high mountains attracts your attention ….??? Well!! This may not be the case all the time that the fast, dynamic, and wild make life happening and content.
To a whole lot of this generation moving ahead without giving a second thought to cons is the best way to be successful. But I strongly feel that for success to be sustained and cherished, we need to have a hold on it. In life the growing up years are more than usually speedy and pass by like a strong gush of wind. Happiness, pain , anger , jealousy n the likes all come n go in changing moments as we grow up from kids to mature adults. Then comes a stage when we suddenly feel this constant urge to stop for a while, wait, and look back n see beyond the past…. Well into the past. There have been times of late that this mad rush of Mumbai life has made me so frustrated beyond limits that I have actually thought of just keeping life at a standstill and relishing smooth flowing years of college.
But this is not truly possible as there aint nothing like a time machine to help us do that. So what I feel is that at stages in life when we feel things are moving too fast and beyond our control which is also a result of our hunger for success, growth, happiness etc we should look for things that can get some kind of stability in our lives. This may be in the form of a relationship or anything that can get us so close to our own self that we discover our ultimate calling in life. This wouldn’t stop us from going ahead in life as one may think, instead it would help us ease out the tensions that might have filled our minds and would be detrimental to our search for constant happiness.
A lot of us including myself think that a marriage and family would change the dimension of our lives but making them stagnant, routine like and may Boring… but that as I come to think of deeply, I understand is the perfect way to balance a racing individual’s life by letting him take a gentle stroll in the garden of life so that his quest of progress does not take away his ability to enjoy the true essence of life.
At this juncture of life I feel that stability and progressive are 2 sides of a perfectly balanced life and anybody who can make the perfect cocktail of both can truly get the high of LIFE………….
the third para made me smile! ;)
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